| Location | Sunderland |
| Age | 37 years |
| Date of Birth | 18/02/1969 |
| Date of Death | 10/02/2007 |
| Visitors | 9,440 since 14/02/2007 |
| Creator |
British Heart Foundation Kielder forest Hearts first hike - Sunday 2nd November 2008
Nic and I took part in the above event, on a very cold but sunny sunday morning. It was physically one of the hardest things I have done, a 9 mile hike in and around Kielder forest, but we did it and raised over £450 between us. Thank you to all who sponsored us. Andrea & Nic xxx
Charity Night in Memory of Ian - Saturday 31st May 2008
Update :- We raised a total of £1916.37 which is being split between The British Heart Foundation and Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. Thanks Again to everyone who helped us raise this money.
Ian, you always said that when you died you would want everyone to have a big party and enjoy themselves, well your wish came true.
Tracey Cooper asked me a few months ago if she could organise a charity night in your memory and she did an amazing job, you would have been so proud of her. We all had a brilliant night.
Piers, Amanda and Simon would have given Tracey and her family a standing ovation, they were excellent, everyone enjoyed the show so much - Greg, you would have probably got 3 Buzz’s but that took a lot of bottle, I am sure Ian was singing and playing Guitar with you.
Thank you to everyone who came on the night, donated Prizes, bought raffle tickets, and helped raise lots of money for the British Heart Foundation and Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. Also Thanks to everyone who donated on my Just Giving site, the site is still open for donations, if anyone wants the link please contact me.
Special Thank you’s to:
Tracey, Brian, Laura, Michael and their Family and Friends
Everyone who took part in the Talent Show
A.C.E Services for the PA system
Andy Winter
Royal Mail Doxford Sports and Social Club
Ian’s Friends and Colleagues
My Family and Friends
Castletown Club
Cummings Florist Town End Farm
Thank you
Lots of Love
Andrea
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Ian Died suddenly at home on 10/02/07 just 8 days away from his 38th Birthday.
His Funeral was a celebration of his Life. Ian was not religious so I chose a Humanist service which meant the service was all about him (he would have loved being centre of attention again)
The Music I chose
Tunnel of Love - Dire Straits, this was a special song for Ian and me
Hotel California - Eagles, goes without saying this was his favourite song
My Way - Sex Pistols, Ian always had to have the last word and the last laugh.
Ian was funny, a joker, a wind up merchant, he was intelligent and talented, sensitive, caring, and a dare devil.
No matter what bad mood you were in or how down you felt Ian would make you feel better and make you laugh.
The last conversation you had with my family was that it was about time you started acting sensible. No way could you ever be sensible and I loved that.
Ian you are a one in a million, we had our star in the sky - you are now that star shining brightly. I can’t believe you are gone and miss you so much but take some comfort in knowing You lived life to the full and did everything you wanted to do. You were my soul mate and my best friend I will love you always and forever Mr Fleming until we meet again. Your devoted wife AndreaX
Cass misses you loads and dreams of the day you will meet again and take her for a walk chasing rabbits.
Please leave a tribute to Ian or light a candle for him, these words bring so much comfort to me knowing he won't be forgotten.
4 Years
The last 4 years seems to have gone by so quickly but so much has happened and changed, I sometimes feel like I'm living a different life.
You helped make me the person I am today, I feel like I have achieved alot and I'm a much stronger person, I hope you would be proud of me.
Love you always and forever Ian Rest in Peace xxx
Happy Christmas
Happy Christmas Ian. Miss you and Cass so much. Love you both always and forever xxx
If some one told me I would be happy again after you died I would never have believed them, but I am so happy now and I hope your happy for me.
I'm enjoying my life again and I think thats what you would want for me, you enjoyed every moment of yours. I'll never forget you and always love you. xxx
Boy it's been all this time,
and I can't get you off my mind,
and nobody knows it but me.
I stare at your photograph,
still sleep in the shirt you left,
and nobody knows it but me.
Everyday I wipe my tears away,
so many nights I've prayed for you to say.
I should have been chasing you,
I should have been trying to prove,
that you were all that mattered to me,
I should have said all the things,
that I kept inside of me and maybe,
I could have made you believe,
that what we had was all we'd ever need.
My friends think I'm moving on,
but the truth is I'm not that strong and nobody knows it but me.
I've kept all the words you said,
in a box underneath my bed,
and nobody knows it but me.
It was all we'd ever need.
xxx
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....Feathers from Heaven
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White feathers fall from Heaven
Theyre from the ones we love
All the beauty that they hold
Just like the Heavenly Dove
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Theyre left so we can find them
Angels send them from above
They know we're sad and lonely
And still they send their love
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Save your pure White Feather
It helps you with your fear
Sent from your precious Angel
To let you know theyre always near
copyright� Vicky Deaville 25/4/2010
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Missing you so much Ian, I know you would have spoilt me rotten today. Family and friends are making this a fantastic birthday, I just wish you were here to share it with me. Love you always and forever xxx
Sunflower
I don't care how long this lasts
We have no future, we have no past
I write this now while I'm in control
I'll choose the words and how the melody goes,
Along winding streets we walked hand in hand
And how I long for that sharp wind
To take my breath away again
I'd run my fingers through your hair
Hair like a wheatfield I'd run through
That I'd run through -
And I miss you so - I miss you so
No you're gone I feel so alone
I miss you so
I'd send you a flower - a sunflower bright
`Cause you cloud my days messing up my nights
And all the way up to the top of your head
Sunshower kisses I felt we had
And I miss you so - Oh baby I miss you so
Now your gone, I feel so low - oh I miss you so, I do
But I miss you so - Oh darling I miss you so
Now your gone, I feel so low - oh I said I miss you so, I do
All I gotta do is think of you - and I miss you so
Baby I'm... I`m afraid to say why - I miss you so
Baby I'm... I`m afraid to say why - Oh I miss you so
xxx
Happy Birthday Ian - Thinking of you on this special day - Know it would have been full of celebrations - in style
Cheers - clink '
Lots of love,,,
Liz, Ted and Nic, xxxxxxxxxxxx
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